Physical activities with another person are absolutely taboo during marriage. But doesn’t it make things better if your husband or wife does something with someone of the same sex?
That’s no help for this 36-year-old man whose 32-year-old wife made out with her best friend at a bachelorette party.
He has been married to his wife for six years and they have a young child. Not long ago, his wife attended a hen party that resulted in quite a bit of chaos.
“From what she told me, it was a wild night with lots of drinking, dancing and gambling,” he explained.
“After she got home, she openly admitted that she had made out with one of her friends during one of the drinking games. That’s the point: It wasn’t just a quick peck or a dare.”
“She told me it went on for a while – long enough that it was more than just casual banter. According to her, everyone was in a playful mood and it was all part of the ‘party vibe.’ She insists it was just a bit of harmless fun and meant nothing romantic… she says it was something that happened in the moment and was meant to be fun for the group.”
Although he appreciates his wife’s honesty, it still doesn’t hurt any less. His wife told him what she did as soon as she got back, so he can respect that she didn’t try to make a secret of it.
His wife assures that the kiss was just part of the madness that came with the party; it’s not like she has feelings for her best friend.
He can’t get over it so quickly, though. He wishes he could sit here and say his wife was just having fun and letting herself go, but he can’t.
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